What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

What do you think of a parent telling their adult child to “keep their personal life to themselves” in relation to talking to them? No reason they should say that it was mean what should I do?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

What caused the Democratic Party's 2024 presidential campaign to implode so horrifically?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

Do happily married husbands cheat?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

What is the attitude of the Swedish people towards sending soldiers to Ukraine to fight for the freedom of Europe?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

Why is (n-1)(n+1)=n^2-1?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

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42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

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44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

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41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

I took a video of my serve (60 FPS) and it took 0.4 seconds from my racket to the service line. How fast would you say my serve was?

What is your favorite position? Why?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

Why do people think Mirko is boring in My Hero Academia?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

Family Relation Age Play

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

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26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

How do people break a narcissist man's ego?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

How many of you have had your parental rights taken away because of lies and no truth whatsoever, and did you prove the lies that were told about you to be false either through drug testing or another way, but still had your rights taken?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

Any that are a turn off?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

How old are you? Male or Female?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

Any that are a turn off?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

The Ice Breaker Questions

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

Please share Did you stop?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

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90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

*** Questions About Me ***

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

39~ What are your love languages?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

52~ What are your hobbies?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

If yes, what?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

*** Random Questions ***

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

Would you read them together?

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

29- How superstitious are you?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

If you win, what will you make them do?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

Nothing too Serious

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?